Two and a Half, almost
So, just a few random thoughts here to give an idea of where he's at. Taisei seems to be a "helper." This is probably very common with the first kid, who doesn't have playmates at home. He just wants to do everything we do. Sometimes, it's very convenient. Yesterday night, after I finished dinner, he collected all the

Wami and I noticed that when we hear him speaking to the other parent, there's always new things that we didn't realize he could say. The reason we don't realize them when he's talking to us is because he now speaks only one language to each of us. In other words, he speaks Japanese all the time to mommy and English all the time to pappa. Somewhere along the line, he abandoned the Chinese "ba-ba" for the Japanese "pa-pa."
One of the recent miracles is that he is finally ok with babysitting. He can take him to nursery, pre-school or the gym, and he's a little uneasy at first, but no tears! But that's only when mama drops him off. If I drop him off, then there are tears. What a weird phenomenon. Only mama is allowed to go do other stuff. If my papa's around, then I get all attention and definitely shouldn't need babysitters. That seems to be what he thinks.
By the way, last Sunday he drew his first happy face - an oblong circle with two eyes way at the bottom and a nose. He told me what he had drawn and then promptly scribbled it all out, or else I would taken a picture of it.